guys... i am trying to be evil and someone is asking to be my mate... what shoudl i do?!
You need to be she-cat, get to warrior level, get Dustfeather to go to shore with you so you can be mates with him. Then immediately after (while Dustfeather is on the same screen), ask the other male cat at the training grounds (I can't remember his name) to be mate. Dustfeather will be really upset with you and will starts crying every time you try to talk to him and won't interact with you for the rest of the game, not even to train with you. Your welcome. :)