So, I thought I messed up and restarted when I'd given half the stat wand thing to the mage, but before I gave the second half to the catgirl, but it now only shows half the wand, softlocking me on whatever I chose to do if it involves it.
The answer should be Blue gem, energy flowing INTO the rod (draining Strength). Have you tried that combination, for the catgirl?
yeah I ended up doing the right one and overthinking it, and restarting the game fixed it, but before that it did prevent redoing the day you get it.
Gotcha. thank you for bringing this to my attention. I will have to try and recreate and fix this soft lock.