Oh i didnt think about using allure that much cause ive mainly been rejected! Also because the first couple times i tried it, it sounded like a romance specific thing and i was afraid i'd cause problems by flirting with everyone -v-;; I've actually never messed with blackmail, since I'm mainly trying to go a nicer route, but also because at this point I'm pretty sure more people would try to kill me
Yeah I figured that assassins were always caused by someone - since I've been ignoring cliques, I know I'm pissing off plenty of people. I know general advice in that regard would be very difficult, maybe a question like "which groups did you pander to?" would be more helpful?
I've gotten better at pissing off less people during events, though I didn't think about the possibility of some of them also have negative effects on other groups unless it was really obvious! Ill have to pay more attention to that.
At the moment I'm kind of angling to learn what skills will generally cover Not Dying, rather than trying to avoid death traps all together. Most of my successful escapes were completely accidental, and it seemed like every assassination attempt needed different skills to pass.
Thank you for the advice!!