I'm not DebatingPanda, but, I think I can answer the second question! If I recall correctly, the black heart and purple bar is domination. I don't think it does much right now, but, we can see an example of what it implies if you choose to be dominant with Jane in the shower scene. I imagine later on in development, domination points will have much more significant effects on the story. Like, they'll get you spicier scenes at the cost of morality, that kind of thing. That's just a theory, though. We'll have to see what the man himself says when he sees this.