Just because I'm not attracted to a physical feature does not mean I dislike the person.
I don't care for big ears or big butts either --doesn't mean I wouldn't be friends with someone who has either.... I just wouldn't date 'em.
if you are aware that your intent might not be coming across right, SAY that instead of fighting so hard to claim you're not racist, which no matter how poorly you worded it what you said was still racist as fuck and you should own up to that. you're the one who literally told me "You may wanna consider opening a dictionary before you throw accusations at people. It makes you look foolish." think before speaking, and clarify immediately instead of acting like its our fault for reading exactly what you wrote and getting upset