I've read about ruins but i can't see how to get there. Please Help
If you can't get to the ruins in a event in the swamp which should be unlocked by I think the 10th or so day. You find a statue and have to have a high enough of a certain stat or sucking/riding the statue's dick. Then you have to talk to othra the priest when your done and she should have it (I had her story up to the super libido potions done, I mention this cause some people said you need to have certain quests done I did them before needing too cute bernard so you might have too do some of her quests.