Glad you were able to give a clear viewpoint about what was going on. After thinking about it again it made sense, as it IS an adult college life text-based game kind of like a simulation.
As someone who plays both DoL and CoT, i get the influence of the former for the latter and i enjoyed it honestly(I actually enjoyed the dating and clothing mechanics here so much that i always comes back for the relationships and fashion choices that the game provide❤️). But one game has more a more dark fantasy/theme, combat and heavy lore vibe on it and the other as you say it is light-hearted, accepting and inclusive. Thus now i understand and respect the decision to erase the said content on the dangerzone seed. And i need to agree that there's still plenty games with non-con aspects if they want one like Lilith's Throne, DoL, TiTs, or BDCC.
Sorry for the long reply... Just wanted to give an opinion here and appreciate your comment on the problem😅