Pronoun coding is definitely hard haha. I'm also learning coding for the first time and trying to make an IF game (which I wont post until I complete the whole game) and it's rough with they/them pronouns and sentence structures. Something that helps is just keeping a list of the coding for all the pronoun variations on the side for reference 😅 at least that's been helping me so far. That being said, I'm only in the beginning stages so I'm sure it'll get harder further in. I wish you luck on your IF journey! And I look forward to seeing more from you! 😊💕