I mean it's not like chari is a saint, she's abusing the assumption that she isn't gay to perv on her friends, who don't seem to have a problem since she sucks at hiding it but she still assumes they don't know and happily pervs on them, only slightly better than what rise did and at the end of the day while rise did bad it didn't ultimately hurt anyone just was very awkward and killed the vibe.
I agree just cause someone has trauma it doesn't make bad things they do less bad tho.