i actually agree with your argument that rahi doesn't seem to know how to properly run a discord server in that case which.... is bad on its own yes, but from other posts i see about how often rahi is working i definitely think they consider the discord a secondary concern, it probably would be better ran by someone's whos a fan of the game who can dedicate their full time to it
As far as minors that sneak into the server, there's still not alot i can see that can be done, i saw in your other post you were talking about a verified/trusted role, and locking any 18+ content behind it, which i absolutely agree with, most servers that do id verification do this, any server I've attempted to make in the past had this, but again I'm in the id check crowd so thats easy... without checking ids such verification is hard, people can, and will lie about their age, and without something they can give that can directly verify it, or them being honest or having it posted somewhere else, it can be hard to tell becuase there are people underage who can act more mature than people who aren't... so I'm not sure how implementing a barrier like that would work without hard proof
Secondly to that though... is having been in alot of id verify servers means I've seen various levels of security about it, some just going dob, others doing dob and username on a piece of paper, and even the addition of the server name along with those
The most exteme case i saw, had to have all that, your state seal, face on the id, and your Face all in the same picture
And the reason that people go to all these various levels of extremes is because people have used pictures of ids that go around, use a family members, or a fully fake id to get past these checks, it's truely insane the lengths people will go to, in a server I'm currently in that keeps fully nsfw content behind a optional id verification, we had someone come in and open a ticket and ask us about if we keep the pictures of the ids to keep an eye out for them being reused by other people, when they asked id we'd start doing it, we said no, and then they said they were going to put us on blast on some bigger server for not doing that, the policing is literally insane... lol
So, I'm genuinely unsure what the best method of handling it is overall
If you'd like to talk with this about me more, can we add eachother on discord?