Thanks for the reply! No I mean the secomd from the top character asked me if i would "change back" or something to that effect and I responded with a no and now that story line has an "X" where the ready or unready button would be.
Ah, I see. It will be back to green checkmark again when you match the preferences of the character (when you change back to being more 'male-ish'). You can look how to do it now, or do it later in the game - the game will allow to explore all of its content regardless on where you are now.
