Huh. I know your comment wasn't directed at me, but I just wanted to say: thanks for the reasonable comment.
Any time I try to point any of this stuff out, I get called "bigot" or a homophobe, or w/e other nonsense. The word(s) has/have lost all meaning, with how liberally people throw it around (or any -phobe or -ist word). It's an immediate red flag to me, because it tells me whoever goes off like this clearly doesn't understand what the words they use mean, and they don't want an actual discussion; they just want to shut things down and feel "morally superior." It's tiring, because all they're doing is just shitting on people who actually never had a problem with gay/bi/trans folk in the first place. Lol. I understand why people are sick of it, because I certainly am.