I am going to be honest, I didn't really understand the second part of your post. But I do want to say that the game might take a bit of time to get into depending on your initial approach and expectations. It is not really random (well, there is a bit of randomness, but not too much). It is more about exploration and trying out different things.
I was running off of 5 hours of no sleep but to decipher the rambling I was suggesting that there should be scene or character introduction meeting the romance girls like how you met Chie and Yukiko in P4.
The typical dating Sim fare.
But I was trying not to write it so I didn't sound like a dick nor telling how make your game cause it your game, your project in alpha so you can do whatever approach you want.
Ah, I see it now =) Well, the situation is a bit different here than it is in Persona. Chie and Yukiko are plot characters there. And they are introduced as such. You get a short introduction for the two possible girls on your first day. But since it is a free sailing after that I do feel that forcing specific girls onto the player would be a bit too much. And most girls you only start meeting only in October due to plot reasons.