Thanks for the response. That all sounds great.
Makes sense with the events. I think as long you provide a way to turn off and override events that won't cause any issues. I would suggest for future events to try to use your own modding system as much as possible. I'm thinking of how skyrim is written in the creation kit and that the same tools the modders have.
I'll try to contribute a clothing mod this week and you could use that in your example mods because that will have some basic skinning and not have copyrights.