No worries. For Gilded Shift, the effect feels pretty minimal for now, but as we add more tools and footwear options in the future, being able to freely swap between them will definitely become more valuable. Even more so once we eventually introduce a second accessory slot.
As for the Dwarven Bracer, its effect is separate from the titanium tools. Titanium tools give a chance for a dig to not consume stamina, while the Dwarven Bracer gives a chance for a dig to not reduce tool durability. They work independently from each other and can actually both trigger at the same time.
And don't be sorry, we all mix things up sometimes. I really appreciate your feedback and ideas. It means a lot to me to hear from you, and I make sure to personally reply to every message because the community is such a big part of what makes this game special :)