This is story is getting a bit out of hand by chapter 9 for the role where you play the virtuous mc trying to save the marriage, defend your wife, and keep to his vows. It is honestly nightmare fuel, incredibly depressing to watch, and at this point I can't see any way they stay together. If the MC would be forced to stay in the country, the way it is playing out, the only option that would make sense is him testing his flying abilities off a cliff. Even if they escape his wife (who claims to love him) has willfully committed adultery several times in front of him with no regard his feelings on it, then abused him even after the player tells her he doesn't like it, and essentially raped him. You can't suspension of disbelief that . While it may not be illegal in the jurisdiction they were in. That kind of behavior leaves scars that no couple can overcome. Divorce wouldn't only be imminent if and when they do escape, it would be ugly and hate filled. I would know. I was in a marriage like that. It destroys you on the inside. Some people take years to recover from it once they finally get away from a person like that, some never do at all.
so you would rather people mistakenly buy a game that would cause them mental trauma because you like how the game is going? nice. speaks to your character. This was meant as a warning for those that think there may be some romantic theme in the underlying part of the game and come for the story because of the husband/wife duo. They need to know there is not and that is all the post is for. The dev can make the game however they want, they are the dev, but those that may think that the game is something that it isn't deserve to be warned.
I believe a warning may be warranted, and if you feel compelled to do so I think that is well within your right! Moreover if you have feedback on any piece of artistic work, I think that should always be allowed to be shared honestly.
But, conflating your real world experience and inflicting your personal history, your real-world marriage and seemingly your psychological trauma, onto other patrons in the forum of a fantastical visual novel seems a bit out of touch and at least a bit disrespectful to the author. To me, at least.
Wishing you well.
Umm, you do know you can turn ntr off, correct? It depends on your choices in-game.
PS: Do read the warnings and the tags before you play/buy a game. Been a while since I played this game, but it isn't too extreme from what I recall. Regardless, it's a game/fantasy. Don't confuse it with real life. Most people don't like femdom and very few of the ones who fantasize about it would want to live it out to the extreme. In most cases, it's limited to inside bedroom (and without any 3rd person). You, my friend, were unlucky to have been with an unpleasant/cruel partner. Hope life's been better for you.