For such questions, the game has a fortune teller and a list of character quests.
the fortune teller told me to talk to violet and when i talk ..she told me to remove her and when i remove she told me again to go talk to her..so basically its a same endless process
Strange. This usually happens if you haven't completed some intermediate quest.
But usually you need to pay attention to characters like Cephrina, Elith. Because they are sometimes real pests.
