Spoken like someone who has not played the game at all, lol.
Nah if you actually played it you know that most of the lewd scenes take place in the real world and not the VR space.
Not to mention if you played the game you'd know that this is an isekai story masquerading as a Ready Player One clone, with the "VR Game" actually being some sort of Astral Plane of existence, with the servers being different worlds. Hell, in the latest update alone the main character gains the ability to jump between worlds and even brings some love interests along the ride, so your arguments about the "VR component trivializing intimate moments because everything is virtual" actually falls fucking flat as far as this game is concerned.