Something for Niichan as I get further into the story. Having experience with multiple women I can tell you with absolute certainty. Not sharing your time equally for the most part among the girls will never work out. Different personalities allow for some variation. Throwing a ring on one and treating the rest like second class relationships would cause serious heartache . That's not just my experience, that's poly 101 for anyone that actually can make it work. No matter how sub a personality may be, subconsciously it will rip them apart.