Of course is unfair, your character does not know what is happening either! And neither both of you know what sito is talking about in any moment. It is frustrating and confusing because it´s meant to be frustrating and confusing, at the end you are being tortured for something you didn´t do
Maybe should better clarify that your character also doesn´t know, but did not had time nor testers to check how the narrative worked.
Thanks for your feedback! :)