I'm sure there's an optimal setup, but most of the 'splash' traits are at around 5 to 10 in a stat so you don't have to go in too far. STR/MAG combo builds just have less stats to yeet around, so you'll have to pick and choose which you want to get to.
And I'm ok! January was awful but February is looking to be much better, beta soon and hopefully release next week.