Ok, I've read the posts and sure, you've proven your point that you're not the only one who dislikes OIALT. And if you read my post here you'll see that I partially agree with the points you made here, except for the "no consent involved" part at Rebecca's wedding. I would've liked to see you justify that one better.
I'm sorry that I caused you to interpret my first post as a "confrontation", that's not what I was going for. This is all about opinions and we both know very well that the opposing side will never change their opinion if they simply don't want to.