Get defeated by enemies, or captured by traps, visit the Shaman and ask him to disenchant things for you.
If you haven't got this option yet, you need to keep playing until you find the Shamanistic Toolkit and give it to the Shaman.
Then i think i get bug. because i asked him for lot of time. I aslso max his relationship and got Toolkit for 4 hours ago, i play for 9 hours already. He didn’t get me any thing after disenchanted
Should i replay