Glad you're enjoying it.
Lil' spoiler:
If you go all in and just give her all your money she'll have a house in the wealthy district, near the marketplace. Doesn't affect the story or anything, but you can visit her there to get even more abused and drained if you wish.
(And if you mean you wanna give her money but still keep some change for the bribes at the gate, just have some items to sell after you give out money. Then trade them with the guy selling fish and wine nearby.)