Hehe, talking to a Swiss guy around the world about virtual dicks... Did we ever meet in the real world? Maybe even touched each others cock at a foam party in Lausanne? - Check my profile at gaymeboys.com (BjoernSunshine)! I live near Zurich.
The gaYmeChat was made about 8 years ago. I didn't update it anymore after iOS marked the end of Flash and most gays told me that they are only interested in simple chats for fast sex but not into playing games that require some brain activity.
VR is absolutely awesome and worth a try. You really believe you're in the game... I just checked the website of unrealengine.com. It's for free now and used by AAA games for gigantic and super detailed worlds. I never heard of Unity. Which one is the best engine today?
The animations of Conan are impressive, but I would certainly die in the game while spending too much time watching my own dick ;-). I don't like multiplayers so much, because you only have a chance if you quit your job and spend all your life in the game.
Do you know http://mmoboys.tumblr.com/ . It's just a showcase of gay mods but there's a guy who spends hours of designing cute game characters... Unfortunately I don't have the time to do this as long as programming gay games isn't paid as a normal job.
When playing games I prefer the direkt first person view. When I move around in third person, I cannot aim precisely and often crash into walls... But in first person I can never admire my beautiful game character. So why not create a game world with mirrors? Isn't that possible with today's game engines? We already have reflections in water? So how to do a mirror? Reflective surfaces? Additional viewports? Ever tried?
Talking about AR and the future of gay sex: I wrote a book about that last year: www.bjoernsunshine.com (could be a great game story too)