ikr like literally relax you can do whatever you want forever as long as no one is getting hurt
Honestly I think my friends would like me less if I wasn't one the verge of losing my sanity. Who else would ask "who fucked a fish?" Upon seeing the fishmen in One Piece if not me?
Without my twisted mind to remind them that the entire world and universe and everyone they know and the past however many years could all just be a really vivid dream and they'll wake up in like 2012 the next morning, how would they ever survive?
Real friends are the ones that stick with you despite all the crazy shit you say and do. You can be you, no one's gonna pull out a gun and shoot you if you step out of line for one second.
see like it was my bestfriends birthday party, and iāve known her for TEN years. like we have been THAT locked in…and she invited these 2 other girls, one that claimed to be her ābest best best bestttt friendā, (the friend to isa,) and another girl who had a lot of issues with, but was also her friend
tell me why i asked isa if we wanna play just dance and she says: āyea ofc!ā and the two other girls say: āoh thatās embarrassingā … ITS JUST DANCE HOLY SHIT??? but the entire time at the party me and her were just laughing cuz like, we DONT think what others think of us
lemme remind these hoes that iām the only friend that sleeps over at her house and that her parents ACTUALLY like…
but yeah, i hate friends who put you down for being YOU
What? It is literally Just Dance, grown adults play Just Dance. What's wrong with Just Dance?
Imagine being so pissed at seeing someone else basically just existing. Not even doing anything to you. Like get actual help and mind your own damn business.
And to your own friends too like... treating your own friends like that. You must be fun at parties. Like wtf bro. Get help actually.
exactly!!! a lot of them were jealous of me. and itās not to help my ego, itās the TRUTH. i had a LOT of friends sabotage me to prevent me getting what i want-one of my closest friends stopped talking to me because i quote on quote āstole presidency from herā…i felt so sorry for her š.
and thank you!! i am fun, like in general when you get to know me as a person, i can be VERY helpful and a VERY good friend. whatās sad to say is that i always involve myself with the bad people, i only have about 2 real irl friends lol šššš. and i have TONS of āfriendsā. i mean, i had a friend group of 30 PEOPLE. it was insane. like i hate if i sound as if im glazing myself but i was really popular at my old school…
this new school im actually really liking my friend group!!! i have 2, kinda small but i still talk to a LOT of people. everybody is so nice like i love my friends, super non-toxic
That's great for you! I don't really talk to anyone tbh I'd kms if I did so much as stutter bro people make me so uncomfy actually. It's not that I care that much about how I appear to others I just have a crippling fear of people in general.
I'm personally not really popular at all. People know of my existence at least, but tbh if I stopped showing up I think the only person who would notice would be the principal. I really just wanna get through these next two years then say goodbye to this school and everyone in it forever. I have friends in my neighborhood, and I have online friends. I don't need ones at a school I hardly care about filled with people I actually hate but have to act friendly with because it'd be awkward as shit to have beef with someone in your class. That's too much socializing for one day, sorry.
Just like introvert things yk. I don't really like talking to people. It's why I sit alone at lunch and sleep in class. Because I'll be damned if these guys know one fact about me that isn't the fact that I exist.
iāve honestly always wondered why some introverts ARE introverts, yk? like i hear the: ātheyāre shyā, all the time but i donāt think itās quite it, no? like as an extrovert when people ask why iām loud i give them the reason why i was given the CHANCE too be loud, so i took it… (i had a speech disorder growing up, and it was REALLY hard for me to speak. so now that i can talk, i wonāt shut up)
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I mean I love talking and all, I'm a yapper at heart, but I will only yap to people I am comfortable with.
Only close friends get yapping privileges. Everyone else is limited to one word answers and awkward laughter.
Also most introvert aren't shy per se it's just more of... ew socializing. Just the idea of existence near people especially strangers is enough to strike fear into an introverts heart. If I had to pinpoint a reason it's that I genuinely don't know how to talk to people. Like people are so confusing, you have to make eye contact but also don't do that too much or else you'll be creepy, stay engaging, but don't talk for too long or else you're weird now, oops. It's like, why did we have to invent a bunch of stupid rules for talking to people. Can we not just talk? Anyway it's just really draining to talk to strangers because of all the dumb unspoken rules. Especially I a group setting like, when do I talk? Did I talk out of turn? If I say something weird then I've embarrassed myself in front of a group instead of just one person. Talking to close friends is easy cause then you can just talk instead of walking on eggshells.
i think life should be lived with thrill, thatās how i was raised at least. i donāt really have introverts in my family, mostly just extroverts whoās jobs for a living are TALKING too people. we have too little to live; why waste it? my mom has always told me to say: āhi good morningā to anybody who really makes contact with me and if they donāt respond thatās their issue, not mine
i canāt even say i act different around friends and close friends, honestly iām not a fake person whoās two faced, i donāt NEED to be because i enjoy my personality. of course everybody has different opinions but talking will always be my favorite thing in the world
Uh I am not two faced really. Like even if I don't like someone and still act friendly with them it's not that I'm dragging them along or anything I'm more so just "haha I don't have the capacity to be mean to people I barely know and arguing makes me cry so I guess me and this person are friends sorta"
This one boy in my class, sits next to me, I absolutely hate his guts, but he's the only person at that school that even really talks to me. I still consider him my friend. Will I ever talk to him after I graduate? No, and I'm 100% sure he'll do the same. But are we friends? Yeah. I would never pretend to be friends with someone that's a shitty thing to do. Even to shitty people.
I hate talking to people because I'm bad at it. I don't know what to say and I don't know when and I don't know how. It's either take the risk of socializing and mess up so you can stick out like a sore thumb and now everyone looks at you weird, or disappear into the background. Disappearing is the less scary of the two options.
Also small talk is the single worst thing we have invented as human beings. Small talk should go die in a ditch. Like what even is the point. You can talk normally guys I swear no one's gonna explode if you just talk.
Point is, I'm happy with my personality and all but I don't like being "the weird kid" so I just kinda keep to myself. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not I just simply don't even talk.
