Active: Time Freeze, Memory Manipulation, Aphrodisiac Pandemonium
Passive: Tantric Vitality, Arousal Synesthesia, Carnal Cure, Relationship Interloper, Numeric Tweaker
Numeric Tweaker can affect all numbers in the targeted ability, so it’s particularly valuable on Time Freeze, aging 2.5 minutes for every 2 minutes in frozen time, lasting up to an hour twice a week. Time freeze has fantastic practical utility in things like avoiding impending accidents or hostile attack.
Aphrodisiac Pandemonium is taken full advantage of with Tantric Vitality, and I can escape the downside with a time freeze if it comes at a bad moment. Memory Manipulation covers issues with bystanders just outside of range reacting badly, so I’m tweaking that as my second, just in case.
The other passives I pick are just bonuses whose downsides I can avoid without too much effort.