So ive been playing this game, and I would like to get more done in a shorter amount of time, since its a skill and patience issue, is there anyway to modify the game files to get more traits per level, and so, where could i find it? Cause for the life of me I couldn't find any compatible mods.

the reason why is because it causes crashing to overkill on traits also it takes the fun out of the game

press F10 to open the console and copy/paste this command:

$game_player.actor.trait_point +=1

not what you are asking for, but might be useful for you. You can change 1 to any other value.