When talking to the gas station clerk about the charity car wash, the game freezes with her image, and the interface won't show again
You have to click AND hold onto the perk until it accepts it. If it doesn't work, then that means you don't have a prerequisite perk unlocked yet. If you haven't learned ANY perks at all then you need to start from the top first, choose a second/middle perk from any of the trees and go down from there.