Unfortunately, that's not what they're going for nor what a majority of the community wants.
If you soothe the golem in her first encounter, she can give you mana chunks in subsequent encounters
There's very few topping scenes in the game, and they definitely don't want us topping the dark night. You used to be able to do it in combat if you break her armor and get her to grapple you but they removed it.
You can use parry into trip
Is the pounce mechanic a one time thing?