Something to add is that for me it only worked after 1 successfull date, then replaying the date and picking to wait, to which it doesn't ask for your name again. Don't know if it'll do that for anyone else, but just thought i'd mention it. Love the game!
Is there a way to get the death scene for John after Ashton's date? It seems that im only able to get Ashton after retaking the survey, and I know in the classic no matter what you say on the survey after Ashton's successful date it forces you into the scene.