Excellent idea, giving the player the Option at a helping hand is a great compromise for those who want it and those who don't need it.
I believe the hints given in the gallery as well as the game-overs are plenty to guide the player into exploring the game without any hand-holding. After-all , this Visual Novel is a Survival Dating game, so death while attempting to rizz up the lady should be expected. Failing while getting to know the character is part of the experience.
Thank you for taking feedback into consideration as you have so far, I can see that you clearly care about your work and are connected to the community you're gathering.
I hope my lengthy reviews aren't too much of a bother to read, I can see plenty of potential out of you and your work thanks to a clearly displayed passion and willingness to experiment. After-all, you say you're more comfortable at drawing than coding or writing, yet you stepped out of that comfort zone so you could bring more Life into your character, and I believe it's paying off.
I will most definitely be around to see your growth in the future and I can't wait to see you evolve as you make more games and write more stories!