So, before I got to this post, I decided to start again, I got my old project, loaded it into GM and it did it's "I need to update" thing. Then, I made sure there was nothing from your stuff in there, saved, closed and re-opened. Dragged the .yymps and did an import all and replace everything choice. This time, the icon for the server was visible, when I tried it the other day, there was no icon, so maybe it either didn't uncompress/save properly (as you know PCs can be weird sometimes) or maybe my AV was stopping it (for some weird reason) and then I'd restart my machine overnight and it stop looking at it? as the blue icon was there, and when i double clicked it, it opened, and my firewall asked me if I want to allow it access, and it's sitting there running now.
I'm a touch confused, as all that is different is 24 hours, but, I can say it's working, I'm sorry if I bothered you with this, maybe I should have tried again before I put in a support request.
Anyways, if I have anymore issues, I'll reach back.
Thanks for your time.