So i figured it out and it's a doozy
https://itch.io/t/1069538/doesnt-work-on-mac
Follow this tutorial, with just one major exception (that took me like an hour to figure out XD). You gotta download a never version of JRE than linked.
https://www.oracle.com/java/technologies/downloads/#jdk26-mac
here you can find the newest version, download the .tar JRE and use the home file from it instead of the one in the tutorial because that one is outdated. hope this helps :)