Personally, I like that they don't have any coded scenes where people react to you being trans. I personally don't find it disrespectful. Now, I wouldn't mind them adding those scenes IF (and it's a HUGE, unnegotiable if) they add an option to toggle them for those who aren't comfortable with transphobia.
Though, I'm not sure what you mean by "express my characters gender other then thigh-high socks"...
All in all, I think they did just fine with their transgender options :]
- From a trans man
