jordan i've come to realize that i can't help everyone and that maybe we all should just let this go. by now if it's not getting through, there is quite literally nothing people can do other than let him be a numbskull or be one with him. i gave up on this place. maybe you should too. just a suggestion, or something to think about.
that's completely not the point in this case, the point was to reevaluate yourself and to not just say "this community is shit!!" if you know you're quite literally part of the problem
I'm so tired of the bullshit, everyone here is just damn idiotic. We complain about having a bad community yet it's quite literally the current population who makes the community like absolute shit. I see it every damn time. "This place is really bad! This place is so horrible!"
Ever thought that the reason why is because of you, and literally everyone else who's active? We all have a responsibility to not be retards and keep a positive community going. Yet people simply can't understand that and that's why this place sucks so bad. Because people can't get that a community forum reflects off the users who use it. Maybe re-evaluate yourself. Understand that every word you put here is exactly why you're a problem or a normal fucking user.
Death threats. Witch hunts. The same pessimistic takes. The same arguments. I'm tired of it. I don't even have to be explaining this, I don't even have to be saying anything, I just do it because it's in my nature. But seriously. This place won't improve unless YOU improve. In any way that seems fit.
You know, you don't have to force yourself to be "positive" all the time. Not here. It isn't worth it. You have good intentions, but to be honest, it just isn't worth it.
Aside from that, I've been fine recently aside from my losing of a friend I had considered to be cool. I won't go to much details, but they came out to me and I congratulated them, however our opinions differed and they decided to test me knowing I'm (not the most but still) religious and try to disregard subjects of the like as a whole. In the end, our views clashed, they didn't respect mine, and it ended there.
I'm pretty happy with who I am, but it's really conflicting in this day and age. I've actually lost a lot of friends after I accustomed myself to my religion again. I don't give my whole support to LGBTQIA communities, but I don't hate or badmouth them either. There's a big difference between not supporting something and just straight up hating. I try not to hate anyone. But disagreeing is fine. As long as it isn't an actual issue. Some friends of mine understand that while I don't agree with them I still care for them, but a good portion of my friends new and old have cut all ties due to such beliefs.
(Also, seriously, I don't mean to sound disrespectful or ill-toned, but seriously, 2020-22 has been some sort of sexuality/gender wave for my friend groups, a lot of people who were straight transitioned to some other sexuality or whatever.)
Just stop it already, you're not doing anything but making yourself look like an embarrassment. To be honest, I really don't care anymore, I don't keep the desire to help people if they're too ignorant to take it, so don't go asking for advice anymore. You blew your chances when you went back to ari.
If you'd just take a minute to look at yourself, you'll find out some pretty twisted things.
You tend to complain about trust issues, right? What about the people's trust you broke when you went back to Ari? You claimed you were tired of Ari before, right? What happened to that now? Point 1: You're a hypocrite.
You get mad over basically nothing (similar to ari at times) and try so hard to be funny, to the point you end up just annoying people. And yet, you'd still go through with it because you have these random ass weirdos as friends on the internet. Point 2: You're a loser.
You try and take over and win arguments by using your own race against someone of the opposite race. Even worse, with no real proof at all. Point 3: You're pathetic AND retarded.
Ever since you went back to ari, this has been your state of being. And it'll continue to be that way.
I've come to realize recently that, I have no point being here, with the fact I have friends and family and other things to worry about. I'm not in the mood to drag this out, so basically, I'll be inactive from now on.
Of course he isn't (though he did have quite good conviction and intuition), but the fact you didn't even bother to reach out says a lot. You probably would sit flat on your ass with a real professional too.
Therapy is a conjoined effort. You talk to the person about your problems, you receive feedback, as simple as that, and maybe even professional advice on what to do. You NEVER returned the favor. YOU have to come to someone, not them. That's not how it works man.
and also, therapy is LITERALLY what people have offered you, FREE therapy, but you refused to take it. You owe kreep and some others an apology, a real good one too, don't you think? Do you not know what it's like to put effort and hope into something only to see it crash down? That's a good example of his situation.
Yeah, Ari is a narcissist. But, few words of recommendation, feel free to dislike or disagree with LGBTQ+ but try not to ridicule or bully someone for it. I'm religious too (not christian though) and I share the same beliefs, however I wouldn't ever harass someone for their sexual identity/orientation or gender. Even if I know that what they are doing is (logically) wrong, the best thing I can do is just mind my own business and move on. Acceptance while also following your own conviction is key to being a good soul.
