Your veneer of caring for trans people quickly falls away when you vehemently attack anti-TERF messages.
You spout so much emotionally-charged language in defence of these TERFs with little reason or explanation for it. Just repetitions of how "damaging", "self-destructive", or "violent" it is.
Last I checked, the violence was being wielded by the hate groups attacking trans people, not the victims telling haters to fuck off - but carry on victim blaming to protect your own fragile conscience.
Ethical movements NEED to be strong and stern to make progress. We look back romantically at the fight for racial and gender equity, but if you look at the actions of the suffragettes, for example, you should understand that radical pushback was critical to the success of the movement, even if extremely unpopular at the time.
Tit for tat. Fight back. Don't be a pushover. What you're fighting for is for trans-positive groups to be pushovers. Fuck that rhetoric. If you hate trans people, go fuck yourself.