No worries. When you're in-game, you should be able to click on any of the empty tiles in the save/load menu. Hope this helps! :)
I meant more finding said menu as it were, i've tried all I can think of at this point, I can use the autosave stuff thankfully and load but can't seem to find the save option itself
Oh, you should be able to press Escape when in-game, which will bring up the main menu again. Hopefully that's what you mean.
