Well for me it is because I have a bad past and many other things about it, if you think it's a fetish for you ok, but at least I respect people's tastes and I also respect what they don't like, that's why I'm ok with myself.
I just asked a normal question and many people like me don't like it and many DEVs don't like it either, so it's not just one thing, for many people it is the worst thing there is, we just have to learn to respect each other's tastes, but that's hard to do for many people, that's why there are so many wars and conflicts around the world.