like, seriously, w-o-w. my face got so, so, so, so red while answering. not sure if i was more fascinated by the knowledge you guys have or more embarrassed by being called out like That. the "It was selfish to make the less correct choice just because it made you feel better" is probably going to haunt my dreams for a while, but mostly i'm glad for this awesome lesson in self-awareness. i feel i know myself a lot better because of this, and i have new questions to think and re-think and overthink about.
for now, what i am thinking is that i may be a ravenclaw primary who models gryffindor primary (maybe the opposite) with a gryffindor secondary who models slytherin secondary (maybe the opposite).
BTW: i've always got sorted as a ravenclaw.