Yes, thing happen to everyone and the update will take longer than expected, but game developing is still on.
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Ok, so it's going to be a long time. You definitely should not have said 'a few months' back then.
Perhaps you should consider cutting one of your AVNs out so you can concentrate on getting one done in a more regular and expedient fashion and then restarting the other when you finish one.
Also perhaps you should consider posting a monthly report for your AVNs here on Itch so that people are already aware of your current progress. I know it would help me with my patience.