ok so im back on safari trying it again on a non incognito tab and i saved the game at the start and then i reloaded the page a few times and opened it on different tabs and its still there so i might have fixed it
So glad to hear! I did a little more reading up, too, but yeah outside of what I suggested there wasn't much else to tell you, other than that the game seems to work better on some browsers than others. I've had success with Firefox and Safari, and I think Chrome works okay (ish) too, while Microsoft Edge is a total binfire!