Firt of all, my dear friend, Discord is 13+. The TOS states this, and is quite adamant about this rule!
And most of the time, especially for a kids game, kids tend to join the server. Who would've thought?
Second of all, of all the people who should NOT be there, I'll tell you, is Howl. (Which could very well be you, since you both see eye-to-eye..)
The reason she isn't on the Pelican Party server today is because she had shown disgusting and moronic, violating not only Discord's TOS, but the rules of the server itself!
Finally, and I am stating this as strongly as I can,
NSFW SHOULD NOT BE POSTED ANYWHERE on Discord other than in NSFW servers and related channels! Not a single man or woman benefits from it, and it disrupts the server!