It's ok, I always glad to hear different opinion :)
About gold - check out fishing. It's the easies way to get money. Also don't forget that you can grab gold from supply chest. After progression in main quest there are more in it.
In court if you don't like to do spanking you can hire Punisher and watch spanking instead or even just leave the punishment room to skip it completely. This can help run through days.
There will be couple of sexual stuff. Headjob is planned for version 0.4. But it's going to be more erotic then porn.