damn.... What Can I say, Your situation is very complicated and delicate that the only advice I can give for you and to push on. But hey, progress is still no matter how small it is as long as you still update us and ToU is still growing. Plus once you play BG3 you'll never get out of the void XD, and Since you're on the action phase of the story you can get some notes or inspiration when writing ToU, two might not have the same game style but hey, if there's a story anything is worth taking notes.
Stay stronk out there bro.