this sounds like the healthiest relationship of all time /j
you know, I think a really good Kataang analysis is done in this video right here, it's a zutara video that I watched out of curiosity, but she brought up some of the best points I've ever heard and even voiced my very own thoughts that I just couldn't find the words to explain. You have to watch it:
I'm honestly just really happy someone finally said something about just how bad Kataang is. And she's also very respectful which is so nice cause I personally have a very hard time keeping my cool when I feel strongly about something, even though I never really mean to be rude, I just tend to state my points really aggressively.