No matter what anyone says Do the Best you can, and to Hell with those that want you to put your Emotion's to the side and work on the Game/Vn. that is just rude and Uncalled for.
your a Person not some Robot or AI. You should be treated with respect and care, You are a Person after all.
Now yes People will be a Bit Insistent Some even Demanding, But if you treat People like you want & wish to be treated they should do the same.