I cannot seem to dash at all, is there maybe a problem
boss progress is saved after you defeat a boss, so you shouldn't have to complete the fight again, and item progress is saved when you pick it up, so if you did, you should be able to dash with "spacebar". If you can't dash, fast travel to the boss room (using the map "M" while in a pool), and the dash upgrade should be sitting there
They should be somewhere in your appdata folder. I strongly advise against editing the save files, problems may arise. There is a "reset progress" button in the main menu, however, so any fuckup should be resolvable by those means
Edit: nope, current version doesn't have reset button... I will publish a patch today