Friend, I don't pretend to please anyone, I just want to please God, and I do that by preaching the truth, if everything were relaxation, no one would think about what really matters, and for that I give my "religious" speeches as you would call it, so that they think about what would happen if they die today, if they will go to heaven or hell, in N1, death is only a setback, but you have to see the reality, that life is only one, (although Jesus gives it eternally if we accept him as our savior) and we must "remember our Creator in the days of our youth"
Ecclesiastes 12:1 says so:
And remember your Creator in the days of your youth, before the bad days come, and the years come, of which you say, I have no contentment in them;
I just want you to know the truth, and remind yourself of it from time to time.