well, for your first "concern" there already is a way to do that, i on different occasions escaped with her by my side and without her attacking me.
i simply kept repeting to her what she wanted to hear, if you know what i mean. (every time she had the intentions of attacking me i simply told her that i wanted to go out with her and that i loved her, so she simply followed me and if she doesn't open the door you just have to tell her that it needs to be open so both of you can get out)
another thing that's preatty neat is that if you write something in between ** you are writing something that you are doing:
like, *does a flip* and she will react to you doing a flip.